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writes:I went to Panera and thought this kid Alex was hot, so I left him my number and he never called so I called him a week later and he explained how he had a girlfriend and he said to visit him and then I went to and a worker told me his last name without me asking. So I found him on facebook and he looked nothing like I rememeber and I didn't think he was hot, and he had a girlfriend so it wouln't of worked out. I know why I confused him with this other kid who I've seen his band live, and a lot of people I know are friends with him. And when I saw the band I thought he was SO HOT. That was 2 years ago. But I would of never thought of Dave without the whole Alex thing. So I went on Dave's facebook, added him then talked to him. And I thought we had a REALLY GOOD conversation!! and I facebook stalked him haha so I watched a lot of his videos and saw his pictures and HE IS HILARIOUS and has the same humor as me, he's single, and there's too many reasons to write here and he's really nice and not a douche in a band. I think we'd be perfect and I don't want to I.m. him again. I don't want to be annoying or desperate. and it's killing me not to, because if he thought it was a friendly conversation, there's no hope. and it makes me want to cry the thought of him not talking to me himself because I like him soo much and I wanna give him my number but that's too much for talking to someone for the first time, and I don't know what he thinks and I don't know what to do. If I should i.m. him or ask him to hang out HELP! :]
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I obviously didn't let that come across in our conversation hah and he's not in a band anymore. And I haven't been on when he was on so I don't know yet.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (26 July 2010):
 Okay. You've been communicating on Facebook, and had a really good conversation.
If he knows how to get in touch with you, he would have had he wanted to get together.
I suppose you COULD send an I.M. and ask if he wants to meet for coffee or lunch. If he does not respond, you should leave well enough alone.
I must admit that reading your message you do sound over-anxious - if not a touch desperate. Unless you're VERY careful, that will come across to him.
Therefore, I'm kinda reluctant to suggest sending one more I.M.........I would only do so IF he has no way to contact you. Another thought is that playing in a band, and working, probably takes up a lot of his free time.
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