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writes:Dear cupid, I am having very weird feelings towards my current girlfriend. She is out of the province and I can't help but think that she is going to cheat on me. I have been cheated on 5 times with my ex. So I can't trust anyone anymore. It bothers me because she is the girl of my dreams and I really need to trust her. She trusts me to not cheat on her but all her friends are guys over there so I find it hard to trust her. is there something wrong with me? Or is this natural on my situation?
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reader, BrownWolf +, writes (27 July 2010):
You can't trust anyone any more??? So why are you in a relationship?? Why bother? If everytime you get with a girl, and you are worried...why bother?
So, let say this girl cheats on you...Now what? What's the worst than happen to you? A broken heart, ok. Are you going to die?, lose your home, lose your family, will the world stop?
No, you learn from it. Not every woman will be what you want them to be, and same goes for you, to them.
If you don't learn to just love the person you are with, you will push them away with your trust issues.
I keep saying, there are millions of women in this world, and we let one, just one, make us feel like life would just stop if they hurt us, or leave.
I caught a girl cheating on me once, both of them in bed. I walk up to the guy and shook his hand, and said" thank you for letting me know what kind of person she was, and you can keep her. You guys don't stop on my behalf, keep going". Then I left.
If she cheats, then she was not for you in the first place.
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reader, dyeruz  +, writes (26 July 2010):
You've been cheated on so many times you find it hard to trust so that's natural and yes there are some girl who have a lot of guy friends, you'll just have to trust her, it doesnt seem she's done anything wrong yet, so good luck.
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