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*aiting for an angel
writes:How can you convince someone you're not as they think ? Well i have a problem the father of my baby thinks im dull, boring, that im a bitch that always asks stupid questions and that i never know what to say. Yes im not perfect but im sure im not that bad. I do have a temper, im not that social but i'd too can have fun. I used to club all the time, but how can i show him im not all bad when he wont even talk to me and not to say his family doesnt like me since he used to tell them about every problem we had when we were together . Im too busy with the baby right now but i want him to see we can at least be friends. How can i show him my good side when all he sees is the bad , and even i have forgotten my good qualities since he puts me down all the time
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reader, Waiting for an angel +, writes (26 July 2010):
Waiting for an angel is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you i do appreciate your advice and yes i do think you're right. Lets see what happens as the baby grows up.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (26 July 2010):
I would suggest to you that you're not the problem, and that he is. I think the problem is that he wasn't ready to be a father or in a committed relationship, and still isn't. He actually needs a reality check. Instead of sitting there wondering what you can do to change, tell him that if he starts being a better father and helping you more, perhaps you'll have more energy to do other things.
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