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writes:I met mine almost 3 years ago, we were together for a year and a half, and yeah things went quite badly towards the end, he changed and what not.But it's been almost 2 years since we broke up and I still think about him every single day, I still want to see his name on my email account, or on a text on my phone.Could anybody share with me their first love stories? And if they still feel this way too?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (27 July 2010):
 Nope, I still remember him and remember him fondly. We weren't meant to be together forever, but the years we DID have were very fond memories.
He was a big piece of my life.
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reader, Serpico +, writes (26 July 2010):
Since I just had to think for a second who that actually was, Id say yes, you do forget them.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2010): I would agree it is hard not just for your first love but anyone you felt a great deal of love for. You will find yourself reminded of that person day to day or once in a while. I still think about on of my exes. It didn't end nicely and yet I still love the stupid prick and think about him.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 July 2010):
My first love ended with her cheating. I only really think about her when I speak about her on here as a warning to others to be aware of cheating signs, to ditch a cheater or to remind people that their first loves are not always the best. As I will now remind you. Better men will come into your life, but only if you want them to. Stay focused on this ex, and in 20 years time you'll be divorced twice or something.
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reader, justfriends +, writes (26 July 2010):
 well you have it better than I do I guess, you got to love someone that felt the same way about you for at least some of the time. my first love if you can even call it that was something that was never going to happen. I was only friends with her and she was a drug for me, I was addicted is how I would describe it and I made her hate me and just found that out yesterday.
I know exactly how you feel for him as I did for this girl. I would wake up and check my phone just for the chance that she would have called or texted me, when our house phone rang I thought it was her calling. when I would see her my heart stopped and she never felt this way about me and it was fine. I love just seeing her name.
I would not wish on anyone what I have felt because it hurt her badly. I promised to her I was always going to be there and it just got out of hand she does not want to see me or talk to me. I still hope everyday that I will get a text from her or a call. and I hope that things will be okay so I can call her or text her cause I miss doing that.
I want to be able to talk to her and explain to her all of this but it is impossible to put into words I just hope that she will see me for who I am I got my problems and flaws like everyone else and I am not asking to date her right now I just want to be able to care about her and be there for her
I hope you will see what I feel about her and hopefully it relates a little to you and this guy.
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reader, karen1989 +, writes (26 July 2010):
 I split up with my first love 6 months ago i still think about him every day i havent been able to date anyone else since i don't get the feeling i got when i was with him with anyone else. Its not nice because he has moved on. I'm hoping these feelings will dissapear soon,but i just don't know. Its hard I know. You'll be fine.
Karen.
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