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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey boys I’m gonna try and make this quick but this is the situation: I had this male friend and we were friends for a couple of months…about 5 I wanna say. Then he admitted to liking me but it was long distance all along and he had quite a few issues going on at home and drug abuse so he broke it off after 2 months. We never saw each other after that for a while even though we agreed to stay friends. I asked him to chill once before but he was too busy so I tried again 8 months later and we chilled. I was expecting everything to be awkward but we talked a lot and he treated me exactly the same as when he liked me. We talked for hours non stop and I felt that kinda brought us closer…he was also a bit touchy too: he would often grab my shoulder to show me stuff or grab my waist to pull me forward if we are waiting in a line. After chilling with him once he msg’d me and told me he had a great time and that he wanted to chill again so we did and it was fun again. He was still touchy and playful like before…we even went on this bumpy ride and he had his arm around me the entire time while he held me tightly…when we talk now we talk for ages and he is very open about things…even things such as which girls he has had a crush on in the past…he introduces me to his friends a lot and even his parents and wants to see me like every week…at one point I mentioned going to some concert and he responded: that’s too far off! We need to do some stuff sooner as well!My question is: I’m kinda confused about him…is he being super friendly/good friend/treating me almost like a sister or does he have feelings for me and wants to start a relationship? Also, I know his life isn’t fully on track just yet and it would still be long distance which makes me kinda doubt the relationship bit…Any thoughts boys?oh we are both 22
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2010): he definitly has feelings for you.a man doesnt hold his sister or friend around the waist! hes definitly into ya. just keep going along the same path you all are on now and with the sparks that are flying between u two things should be more than friendly in no time.good for u!
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