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26-29,
*ravybabe
writes:My boyfriend is 16 coming 17 and he asked me to have sex. But it really wasnt sex cause he licked me and fingered me and we did it in a ass. But he asked me to do it in the vagina and i dont know how to say not yet. i dont want it there yet because it might hurt too much! but the sex so far with him has been great what do i do?!
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (27 July 2010):
 tell him "heavy petting" is all he's gonna get until you are ready for further action... you are in control of your body don't feel subserveant to anyone.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (26 July 2010):
 Yup, tell him you aren't ready. By the way, anal sex is still sex. It is actually more risky as far as passing along illnesses and such, the only risk that's reduced with it is pregnancy.
A good guy will wait for you, a jerk will leave. I'd agree that you should be enjoying your youth instead of having these worries though. There will be plenty of time for sex to run the rest of your life. Be young and have youthful fun now.
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reader, becca emma louise +, writes (26 July 2010):
just for reference vaginal intercourse will hurt less than anal :)
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reader, kevin3007 +, writes (26 July 2010):
 if you feel you're not ready yet then tell him IAM NOT READY AND I DON'T FEEL GOOD ABOUT IT ....and if he really loves you he'll respect your choise ...well in my opinion you guys are too young for sex ....i think you should wait a littel bit ...hope i helped and good luck
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reader, CntResistDaex3 +, writes (26 July 2010):
 Well if he respects you and your body enough he will wait till when your ready . if your having "sex" with him you should be able to talk to him about what you are and aren't ready to do. tell what you are feeling so he can understand why you gave the answer you did . hope this helps
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