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writes:Last night my boyfriend and I got home late and pretty drunk after a party (though he'd had more than me). He tends to be a lot more free in expressing his feelings when he's had a few drinks and after talking emphatically for a while about how open, kind and beautiful I am, he told me he loves me. I should mention that we're only 4 months into our relationship, so this is the first time either of us has talked of love. Now, I didn't say anything back - I was concentrating more on making sure I'd remember everything he said in the morning - I just held him tight. But I know I love him back, despite the short time we've been together. So my question is - should I tell him I love him now? He might not even remember saying it to me (like I said, he had had more to drink). Or should I wait for him to say it again in better circumstances? Maybe he's not really ready to take that step when he hasn't been drinking...
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (26 July 2010):
 Ancient Romans used to say "In vino veritas " ( In wine,there's truth )...
Personally, I am not too sure about that, and , just to be on the safe side, I'd wait for him to express his feelings about you when he is sober.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2010): Ask him if he remembers anything about last night. And bring up the fact that he told you he loves you. Ask him if he meant it. If he does say it back. Personally, if he denies it, I wouldn't tell him I loved him. Because being the first one to say it is hard. I always make sure that the guy says it first because they are always the last ones to fall in love with you. Girls always fall in love first, maybe because we are more mature and know what we want. But regardless, sit down and talk to him about it.
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