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writes:When men say “do what makes you happy” do they really mean it?For a example - I asked my boyfriends opinion about dying my hair… ‘cos he said he loves my hair, and I wanted to be sure he’d be okay with it. I wasn’t asking his permission, just wanted to know what he thinks… he said that I would look good either way and I should do what I want… does he really mean it or is he just being nice?Not just applying to hair coloring, but other things as well…Pre-thanks to anyone who answers this… everyone’s insight is very much appreciated. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2010): My boyfriend says the same. I dye my hair ALL the time because I like a change and it makes me feel better. I know my boyfriend doesn't like me changing it all the time. But he also tells me it looks good no matter how I have it and just do what makes me happy.
You'll find he's just being nice. Most guys normally are in this occasion.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (26 July 2010):
Errm. To be honest, sometimes we do it to be nice. I love my girlfriend very much, but sometimes she does a thing here and there that I don't quite agree with. She once got a haircut that just didn't work. I just put on my best smile.
Your boyfriend will want you to be happy, like I want my girlfriend to be happy. And if you want to do something like get a haircut, or dye your hair, and your boyfriend says 'do what makes you happy', then the truth is he wants you to be happy. So go be happy.
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