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writes:I have been in an intensely sexual relationship for 4 years... unfortunately things didn't work out and we parted. I have a new (lovely) man... seems slightly inexperienced in the bedroom, and certainly never practised any kinky stuff like I have done... how do I approach this???!!!(I'm not into extreme bondage, but do like restraints, dressing up and occasionalspanking/whipping and... filthy talking!!) Reply to this Question
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reader, Universe Man  +, writes (26 July 2010):
When you're in the middle of some foreplay, take out some silk scarves and say, "You know what really turns me on?" He's going to want to turn you on, and will be happy that you want him to do it to you. Silk scarves on your wrists is fairly tame I'd say. Just escalate from there if it works out.
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (26 July 2010):
 you can always ask him if he has seen something in a porn flick or heard about other things and ask what he thinks about that. at the end of the day he will either like it or hate it. best to do it one at a time and if hes not comfortable stop last thing you want to do is put him off. you can always say your friends talk about things and wonder what his thoughts are! aphex x
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