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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (27 July 2010):
 A test to see if you had sex? Or a pregnancy test... or a test for STDs?
I hope you're using condoms and that you understand how to prevent STDs and pregnancy.
Please get educated about how to protect yourself and your girlfriend from pregnancy and from STDs.
ONLY condoms can prevent STDs, and condoms don't work 100% of the time.
The only way to guarantee that she won't get pregnant, and that neither one of you will get sick, is to be ABSTINENT!!
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (26 July 2010):
 Her parents can not force you to take a test. But I believe it is possible to see if a girl has had sex if her hymen is broken. Then again the hymen can be broken from all other things.
I don't think it is possible to test this. What her parents might be thinking about is not to test if you had sex, but to test if any of you have a sexually transmitted disease.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (26 July 2010):
 How old are you?
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reader, Carina1993  +, writes (26 July 2010):
Haha. Funny mod note.
But seriously I don't think such a test exists. So now just make sure what you did want illegal!!
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reader, Miamine +, writes (26 July 2010):
 If the girl is under age and still her parents responsibility then they can ask a doctor to see if she still has her hymen, but many girls don't, many hymen's are broken with vigorous exercise..
If your not 33, then I hope you and the girl are over the age of consent.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 July 2010):
There is no test. Except a lie detector. And even then it's not something they can force you to do. Tell them flat, that you will not take a test. And I hoped you used a condom as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2010): they test the girl! there are ways to tell if a girl had sex.... thats how they can tell if a murder victim was raped
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (26 July 2010):
 How can you TEST a guy to see if he's had sex? THAT I want to see.. well maybe not see..
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2010): I hope u used a condom.
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