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writes: hi everybody.;1. tell me what is masterbating? i am 6 years married and have 5 years baby...1 year ago a miscarriage and d.n.c. .;..now we want baby but alas....i always enjoy sex but my husband come soon and cannot have orgasm.;some people says you should not go for pee after sex....but i can not stop for too late...my husband is healthy but depresed because of his emotional affair.;now having medicine but he loves me.;please help me;..what should we do?please use simple english...as soon as you can...need a lot of healthy advice and suggestions...periods has gone a week before...thanks in advance for giving your time;
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (30 August 2010):
 Hello wife..
1. Masturbation. You touch yourself, you touch your sex parts with hands or with penis like object (for women). You touch yourself until you orgasm. Women can do this, so can the man. Masturbation is good for when the man is tired, or the woman is away and the man feels lonely. Masturbation is sex with your self. Men find it sexy if you do this in front of them.
2. Pee before sex and after sex is very good for women. It helps to stop infetion, keeps your vagina healthy. Maybe it is not good if you want to make a baby. But it is good to go pee, pee will help clean the vagina after sex.
3. Sometimes people have baby fast. Sometimes is more difficult to get pregnant. One year is too soon. Maybe it will take another 6months. It takes about 18months to get a baby. You are not broken, your husband is healthy, the baby will come in time, do not worry, the body needs right time to make babies.
4. Husband with emotional affair.. this is not good. Husband should love only his wife. This is not fair for you. He must love you, he must not be sad, he must not think about another woman. You are his wife, his wife comes first. If you have emotional affair, then he will get very, very angry. He must stop being so sad, he must try harder to make you happy, he must treat you very nice. This is the job of a husband.
5. He has orgasm very quickly.. this is no problem. Let him sleep for one hour. Then kiss and touch him again. Men orgasm quickly, then they need rest. But they can have orgasm again if they sleep first. You masterbate, touch yourself and show him, he will think you are sexy and the penis will come up again. Touch and kiss him again, tell him you love him. Tell him you think that he is very beautiful man. Talk to him about sex, tell him you like how his penis feels. This will make the penis come up again. He will be able to do sex, and he will be able to have sex for longer. He will not come as fast as before.
I hope this helps. I try to make my English very simple to help you understand. Good luck, you are very good wife. Do not worry, just love and kiss your husband all the time.
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