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*idfromLA93
writes:I am 17 year old guy and i am going to be 18 in 10 months and when i look back i never had a real girlfriend actually first one i had when i was 8 and our relationship lasted just 2 weeks long. Since then i just had dates which were just happening once and i never had more after that. When i was 16 i only had a bad relationship to a girl which i was not attracted to for 1 and a half week, so i learned i never should go out with a girl i don't have feelings for one of my biggest mistakes i did in my life and we were just knowing each other for 3 days but thats not the point. I am only 10 months away from becoming an adult and i feel i haven't done anything in my teenager life.Since 10 years i had big disappointments and pain, mostly killing me is that i never had that special someone or a nice girl on my side to be with , something always had to be go wrong wether they say i like somebody else or they say i don't like you anymore.I fell in depression even but i am out of it since a while , but the pain of loneliness is still there , don't misunderstand me i have friends and family ,but i always wanted somebody i could really talk to and have fun with and be in love.Anybody says there is nothing wrong with my looks i always get compliments and flirts and girls say i am cute but they never think of being with me and i try but i always fall back. I just can't find a solution maybe its because i had a girlfriend to early or all the girls asked me out , i don't know please help me !!!
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (26 July 2010):
Well you learn your lesson about not dating girls you don't like...Awesome!! So, now lets rush into finding a girlfriend you do like.
Yep you found her, you are in love, butterflies, love notes, the whole deal, and it's a real relationship of let say 1 year. You can't see ever living with out her.
Then one day she says "Sorry, but I love someone else", and leaves you. Now you are going to die, you feels like your heart been ripped from your chest. You hate women, you hate your life, you hate the world. You don't eat, sleep, and you cry yourself to sleep every night. You start drinking, even drugs, just to dull the pain. All for ONE woman.
Still want to rush into having a girlfriend??? Learn all you can about women, and when you think you have a good handle on it...learn some more.
Trust me, women are AWESOME!!! They can make you feel things you never dreamed of. But if you don't know how to treat them, they will find someone who does.
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