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writes:well i have been dating my girlfriend for about a year and 4 months. but i have an issue! i was on the phone with her yesterday and she lives with her grandparents. but she has to go up to her moms house to take care of the dog. and she was taking care of the dog when her step dad came outside and said what you all dressed up for?.. she was wearing a "summer dress" when she replied no reason.she then noticed thathermom was leaving for a while to go to town. she then went back down to her grandparents house and told me over the phone that she had to go back up there to get more of her things that she left there! she said she would call me when she was done but she would still txt me. well she was txting at first but then stopped. an hour past and i started to think.. my gut tells me she might be having sex with her step father. but when she finally txt me back about an hour later i was pissed. but she denide that anything happend and that im stupid for even assuming it. am i wrong for thinking this way? my gut still feels that she did. what do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, hendrick88 +, writes (26 July 2010):
hendrick88 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwhat i forgot to post in this is she has been acused of this from her mother also.... i miss that whole part! and i wasnt txt her or anything crazy but i remember her mom telling me that she thought they were... i wasnt angry i was concerned
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2010): Are you insane?! Nothing in your post makes me jump to that horrendous accusation!
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (26 July 2010):
 uhhh wow, stop being a jealous crazy.
my dad says stuff to me like that all the time, its fatherly to be like "hey you look nice, whats the occasion" or "why the heck are you all dressed up" THATS NORMAL, not perverted.
you are getting jealous over silly dumb things. Give your gf space, if she doesn't text you back, then WAIT or call her in like four hours. Let her have her own life. Let her have other friendships and ESPECIALLY don't get pissed over her communicating with her STEPFATHER. HER FATHER. HER FAMILY.
seriously, I can't stress enough that you need to take a step back and realize that you're on a slippery road on being controlling towards her. Be nice and TRUST YOUR GIRLFRIEND.
PLUS, you must have more proof that something is going on, but it eeks me out that you are PISSED and not CONCERNED. you do realize that it wouldnt be her fault if something was happening, seriously.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (26 July 2010):
 VERY, very dangerous waters you are getting into. This isn't a light matter. You're saying the girl has something with the stepfather. The evidence you give here is not enough for me to think they have anything.
Plus, I don't get if you're ANGRY at her having something with her stepfather, or CONCERNED.
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