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writes: MOD NOTE: 2 posts incorporated into one..Me and my boyfriend have beeen dating for almost 5 months now. the only problem is that we havent kissed yet. i want to but im honestly kinda scared. he wants to because he has told me, but im afraid he'll dump me if i dont do something soon. what do i do??My boyfriend acts as if he is 4 years old! im tried of his bull crap. i care about him a lot to break up with him. theres 2 things i could do: break his heart, OR talk to him and get him to grow up. it seems he doesnt even take us seriously. what should i do?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni wanna thank all of you who helped me with my question. your opinions have helped me figure out what to do.
thanks again! :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2010): Kiss him? That is for question one. And if you are too scared to, then don't do it. Second. Yes, of course, talk to him. You sound like a child too. Or try not to do anything for the next few days and see how you feel about everything. Take a break from him and from your relationship without announcing it. Just lie low for a while. There is not enough information in your question to figure out if he does behave like a child. Or if he does not care enough... You sound like you need to spend some quiet non-boyfriend time just hanging out with your family and not thinking about your boyfriend
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2010): wait talk to me and let me try to help you
okay did he say he wants you to kiss him or something?
why can't he do it if he's the guy in the relationship?
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (9 January 2010):
 You may be young but you're not stupid, the first kiss is very important and even more so when it is your first ever. Sit down and talk to him about his imaturity. Boys usually take a couple of years after girls to mature to the same level. If he doesn't want to change then maybe you two were not meant to be together and it might be best to save your first kiss for someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2010): i think you need to talk to him. there is obviously some thing there that needs to be spoken about. go out and bring it up. you will find a way to figure this out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni really need your help on this people. please just take a look at this question. im young and stupid and i need advice from experianced people.
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