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writes:hello, i havent started my period because i am just 14 but 4 weeks ago i lost my virginity and i bled quiet heavily afterwards, we didnt have a condom on and i went and got the morning after pill 68 hours later and i told my doctor i had started my period because she just presumed i had done. i dont know when i would know if i was pregnat or not because i wont come on my period. if i am pregant and live in the uk will i be able to get an abortion pill at 14?and where can i get an abortion pill without going to hospital?if i go to the family planning clinic or a place like that will i get the abortion pill without the data going on my nhs records? thanks alot xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2010): Excellent advice from celtic_tiger about the "abortion pill" and finding someone like mum to talk to about it all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2010): sweetie you took the pill for no reason you can't get pregnant if you have never had your period. You body is only ready to have a baby after you have had your period. Still have protected sex!!!
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reader, celtic_tiger +, writes (9 January 2010):
 I really think you need to talk to your Mum about this. If you are mature enough to have sex, then you are grown up enough to deal with the consequences.
As you took the morning after pill, this should have stopped you getting pregnant. HOWEVER, this is only effective within a set period of time.
If you are pregnant and you have to have a chemical abortion, you will need to go and see a Doctor, as things like that are prescribed only. They are not given out like sweeties. You would need to be fully checked over, for heart conditions, etc as they are strong medications. This would go on your medical records, as it is a medical procedure. Its not like taking a couple of paracetamol. It is a serious thing.
I dont think you are pregnant, and if you have taken the morning after pill you should be ok. I really urge you to talk to your mum or a teacher and go and visit your Doctor (that would be confidential) ASAP about this, as you are obviously lacking in sex education.
For one thing, what were you doing having sex at 14, before you have even started your periods!!!!! Your body is still that of a child, and is physically not ready for sex. Your body and brain have not matured enough to deal with this, physically or emotionally.
You need to go and learn about contraception, and how its used, like the pill (altho they probably wouldnt give this to you yet as you have not started your periods) CONDOMS which are always essential, to prevent sexually transmitted infections and diseases. DO you know about all the nasty things you can catch from sex? They can make you infertile and could possibly kill you.
NEVER have sex without a condom. EVER. Learn that lesson NOW.
Also, just to make you realise ALL sexual acts under 16 are ILLEGAL. This includes, oral, handjobs, blowjobs, fingering, vaginal sex, anal sex and any others I cant think of.
You need to STOP having sex until you are much older. Put this behind you and LEARN from this experience. Wait until you are of legal age and can totally understand the consequences of sex.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (9 January 2010):
You shouldn't have lied to your doctor.
You are probably not pregnant by the sounds of it as you got the morning after pill and haven't started your periods.
You can get an abortion through your doctor or through the family planning clinic.
It will go on record I'm afraid but no one has access to those except people who need to know. There are so many laws about these things staying private.
All I can say is that I hope you have learned your lesson from this and will not have sex again for a good few years. When you do have sex again when you are old enough, I hope you will also use a condom.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2010): I don't know the answers to your questions about all the UK laws on getting the abortion pill at 14, I will leave that to someone from the UK.
But have you thought about what you are doing and how irresponsible it is to think that you don't have to worry about consequences for your behavior because you can just take a pill to make it all OK?
Life doesn't work that way. There are reasons you shouldn't be having unprotected sex especially at the age of 14.
The largest one being your total lack of care and concern for your body your future and the results of having sex.
Why don't you go to the family planning clinic and find out your answers to your questions.
Be sure to ask the following:
How do I get on hormonal birth control?
How do I get the vaciine for HPV the virus that I am at high risk for contracting while having sex in which condoms do not protect against and that can cause cervical cancer?
How much does it cost to deliver a healthy baby?
How much does it cost for formula and diapers and other baby care each year? Lifetime?
What kinds of jobs are available for 14 year olds that have children and have to work to support them.
What kinds of jobs are available for 14 year olds that have to drop out of school and not complete their education?
Where can 14 year olds live to rais their kid on their own, how much will that cost?
What are the statistics for unwed mothers having the father of the baby remain in tact as a family after the birth?
What are the STD's I can get from Oral Sex?
What STD's can I get from Sex? Which ones can possibly cause complications in conception in the future?
What does an abortion cost?
When do I need to have it performed, where can I go to get one?
How do I look into adoption?
How do I get my birth control supplies?
Not how do I keep the abortion pill going on my nhs records.
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