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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi I have been with my current boyfriend, now fiance for almost 2 years. I am having a problem and IDK if its me or if there really is something. I have had trouble in the past where a guy i really trusted and loved kept things from me and wasnt completely honest with me. So now i am not sure if i am overly suspicious or not. my fiance is friends with his ex on myspace. I will admit i am really snoopy i guess, and he knows this. but he went tot he restroom and left his myspace signed on (something he NEVER does) and I saw where he has been talking to his ex girlfriend. I am 85% sure the last message he said her was "do you have any everyday e-mail so i can mail you while i am at work?" I think i almost had a panic attack or maybe i even did. but i went to him and said have you heard from your ex lately and said no and i said on myspace and he is like she said merry christmas alst year and i said i am talking about 2 weeks ago and he went silent and i walked outside wanting cause i was just soo dazzed and disappointed but i came back inside and he is like telling me how he is going to be completely honest with me. he said she contacted him because her boyfriend hit her and wanted advice and also because it really hurt her feelings when she found out that he was engaged to me. and he is like he heard on the radio that if your partner has an issue with trusting that you should give him your passwords. so he gave me his password and i tried to access his account and his password he wrote down didn't work. I called him the next day and was like your password doesn't work can i have it and he is like so you checking already and i am like yes i am. and he was like i was completely honest with you and it bothers me that you dont believe me. still not giving me his password. so we talk awhile and it kinda blows over and later on when i am at work it started bothering me again and i called him and we argued and i said as soon as i get home from work i want your password so i can check and he is like okay. so it didn't happen when i get home (i stock and dont get off work until 530am so he is asleep when i get home. so the next day he gets home from work and said he is just going to delete his myspace because he doesn't want a girl to message him and said he has a big penis or something. since then he has deleted her as a friend and supposedly blocked messages from her on myspace but i still haven't received his password.
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reader, ms.rafaeli +, writes (9 January 2010):
 Believe me when i say this... Once a liar, always a liar. He may have deleted his myspace account, but anyone can make a new account tho. Just ditch the password thing. Stop asking about his passwords. That makes you look a bit psycho. The next time you find out something suspicious about him, confront him! Of course you need to have a proof in this case..
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