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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ok, to put it simply, i like a guy and i'm pretty sure he likes me... i'm just slightly uncertain because of certain things that have been happening. Basically, i'm 23 and he is 37 and we work in the same work place and have been for about 4 years. It all started when i first came to the work place. We would always be smiling at eachother and he would blush immensely and so would i. Now, this is when things started happening. I'll list the signs so you get a rough idea.1. When i look at him he blushes and shys away, then when im not looking he just stands there and stares at me until i look back.2. Everytime i walk to get something from somewhere, he would get up as well and walk past me or around my area but not say anything.3. When we talk, which is rare, we stutter, go red, talk like robots, and make a complete fool out of ourselves when we laugh... and we sometimes talk over eachother. Once we were walking past eachother we had a "hi, how are you" conversation WHILST walking away from eachother so we kind of ended up screaming! A few years i was planning on leaving my workplace because a job elsewhere offered more income. So i came up to him and told him and he just stared at me and was like "-looks shocked- oh....... can't you stay here a bit longer?" which was quite awkward yet sweet :P. Also, the biggest clue was usually when we were working. Thing is he sat on a desk south-west of me and he would always be looking at me and gazing/tilting his head when i was typing. Then when i would look up at him he would look away and then run off from his desk.... i know lol. Now about a year ago, i moved to a different floor at work so i didn't see him obviously and it's very difficult for me to see him, and i'm getting extremely sad. One day i passed his desk upstairs because i went to see my boss and he was looking at the computer screen and suddenly said aloud "no matter what happens, i will always really really like you alot". And i paused and looked at him in shock and i said "what?!" and he said "oh! er sorry errr -blushes- was just... reading... something...." and i smiled a little and walked off.... But now that we dont see eachother alot we don't say hi, we just walk past eachother and when i look at him he looks up at the ceiling or down at the floor.... but still smiling :S, yet when i DO go upstairs to the floor he is on i always see him staring down at me on the corner of my eye until i'm out of his sight. It's killing me because i feel like i really want to get to know him, and i like him ALOT, but we hardly talk/know eachother! Any advice anyone? I feel like i'm having a mid-life crisis. Much appreciated + also do you think he feels something for me? I mean he is quite confident with everyone else. An example of this was my mate was having a leavers party and he was there and we were near eachother and my other mate said "let me take a picture of you guys here!" and he said "oh please don't i don't like my face" and ran off. And then i asked her "is he always like that?" and she said "no, he usually LOVES photos :S". Anyway thanks guys :) Sorry for the long description :)+ i am extremely shy, and it was only an extra £3000 a year... so i chose otherwise.
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reader, stella-confused/angry +, writes (8 January 2010):
Ask him out like " do you want to go get some coffe and dinner tommorow night " it always has to be one step at the time not more a simple thing at first.
xxx hoping for the best for you....
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