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Are his dreams normal?

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Question - (8 January 2010) 7 Answers - (Newest, 28 January 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *issy_10 writes:

so ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years and every night i wake up beacuse the bed is shaking. its shaking because my boyfriend is having a sex dream, hes fully erect, and he is acting exactly like we are having sex i mean hes doing all the movements and hes making noises and everything my questions: is this normal? or am i not pleasing him enough? am i just over reacting? is it something i should be worried about?

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A female reader, Lib1 United States +, writes (28 January 2010):

Lib1 agony auntsexomnia! I am watching "Strange Sex" on TLC (The learning channel). This could develop into a serious problem.

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1203118/sexomnia_one_of_the_less_common_sleep.html?cat=5

Good luck!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2010):

I saw a talk show on TV last year and there are actually disorders where people (men or women) perform sexual acts while asleep. It may be a good idea for him to mention this to his doctor and see if there is any information or solutions. Different couples on the show reacted differently to this situation - it hurt some relationships, but wasn't a problem at all for others. Hopefully nothing is seriously wrong and your relationship can continue as normal. Good luck.

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A female reader, missy_10 United States +, writes (8 January 2010):

missy_10 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

we have sex atleast two or three times a week so i take advantage of it well and he to sometime jacks off when hes asleep.... we even almost had sex till i realized he was asleep

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A female reader, missy_10 United States +, writes (8 January 2010):

missy_10 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

well its a one man show. he still asleep hes not touching me its like hes having sex with an imaginary girl and im watching ill wake him up but ten minutes later hes back to it and its every night. they seem to be getting worse

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A female reader, Lib1 United States +, writes (8 January 2010):

Lib1 agony auntI woke up to my ex jerking off in his sleep a couple of times. It happens. If that is what you mean by normal. At the time though we weren't really having sex and it really pissed me off that he was jerking off.

If my boyfriend now did it we would have a laugh out of it because I knew for sure our sex life is through the roof.

I believe your questioning the behavior is an indicator you feel like something is up. You should ask him but be fully prepared for the answer.

My jerk ex said he wasn't attracted to me anymore. Trust me I am not ugly I am constantly being asked out by men... but HIM saying it killed me. If you're willing to explore this topic with him do it but like I said be prepared.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (8 January 2010):

Honeypie agony auntI think your man is just a normal young man, with a big libido.

Is he trying to have sex with you while you sleep or is it a one man show?

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A male reader, Dr.LanceMerryweather United Kingdom +, writes (8 January 2010):

Dr.LanceMerryweather agony auntWhy not just join in? Be the girl of his dreams! Shame to waste a good hard-on!

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