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female
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30-35,
*irginal.jo
writes: well, i'm a virin, and i'm almost always horny around my guy friends. several of them even want to have it with me. and we even get pretty into it sometimes. but i'm too scared and nervous to have sex. for one; i don't know if they like the way i am when i'm with them. two; i'm a virgin and i'm scared of what will happen when i lose my virginity. can anyone give me any tips about getting off with a guy without having full-blown sex?
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reader, missy_10 +, writes (8 January 2010):
I dont think you should have any kind of sex right now. looking at your age you really shouldnt be worring about having sex trust me i started off just fooling around and i eventually got stupid and got pregnant. let me tell you its hard being a parent so please hold off on he sex atleast for a few more years..... your hormones are raging i know but there is always masterbation
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reader, Redd_Extacy +, writes (8 January 2010):
Well losing your virginity is a special thing.don't let your hornyness (sorry for the made up word) take over.U could try other things like oral sex and fingering seems to feel really good depending on how they work it...hope this helps :)
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reader, Saraleighanne +, writes (8 January 2010):
sweetie its normal to feel like this trust me. best thing to do is go as far as u want and no further and make sure the guy nos that. and dont do it with every guy u dont want to end up being called a slapper
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reader, ShadowGoddess231 +, writes (8 January 2010):
Be a kid like what you are don't go start having sex at least before you are out of high school. You do NOT want to chance even having a kid in school. BC and condoms don't always have a 100% on having no babies. I don't think you want to have that in high school, you know being a high school mom. If you are horny that's human use a hand held shower head (which I found to be super) or a massager or something like that to make you cum and feel better, or finger the hell out of yourself. It's like a guy jacking off. Your a teen and you are having normal things happen, you just got to not act on your "animal" desires. You are human and you hold to a high law. Just do the female jacking off and you'll be fine. Just don't become a high school mom. Abstinence is the best BC out there! Good luck!
Cheers!
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