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30-35,
*hbabycakesxx
writes:It finally ended. The guy I have been liking for months, the one who told me he liked me back, texted me one night and said, "I don't think you should wait for me anymore...I'm sorry." He then went on explaining how so much shit has happened in his life and that everyone wants something from him and his parents are bitching at him and he has no time. I personally think this is a bunch of bullshit. What does that have to do with a relationship? But i'm not sure if I'm wrong. He kept saying sorry, but I don't think he meant those sorry's.Do guys mean it when they apologize?And should I really stop waiting for this guy?Help me.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (9 January 2010):
The poor guy sounds like he's having a rough time. He tried to talk to you about it so he obviously trusts you and sees you as a friend. But here you are having a go at him because you aren't getting what you want.
Why not have a think about what it must be like to be so stressed and try and be there for him. That's what a good friend would do and it's certainly what a girlfriend would do.
If you care about him then try and be his friend. If you just had a crush on him and wanted a boyfriend then do as he says and move on.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2010): Yes you should stop waiting for this guy.Sometimes guys mean their apologies, sometimes it is just tacked one to the end of the sentence that tells you what they want to do and what they don't want to do.Either way, take his message, he doesn't want to have a girlfriend, he is a kid, he has a lot to do and so do you.
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