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writes:MOD NOTE: 2 posts combined into one.I need advice bad i dont know what to my boyfriend and i have been together off and on for a year he took my virginity so he means alot to me but sometimes he can be the sweetest person when other times he act as if we arent togther yesterday he came to pick me up but he was with his friends which made me mad but instead of him sittin in the back with me he sat in the front and i was left to sit in the back with his cousin i went to my job to get my check and he didnt come in with me part of me feels petty about being mad about these things and i havent had a chance to talk to him about it yet but whenever im mad at him he does something to make me happy and feel like he cares without him telling him im mad i dont know wat to do i need u guys help thanks in advanceSecond question: Last night was the first time my guy and i have ever had alone time with just the two of us we were layin in the bed watching a movie and bluetoothing ringtones to one another and a text came through that said "wifey" my feelings got hurt so i began to act distant and eventually we fell asleep but i never asked him about it i dont even think he knows i saw it i dont know wat to do.....help
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reader, ms.rafaeli +, writes (9 January 2010):
ABout the seating arrangement... I think you're exaggerating it.. Dont sweat the small stuff! it's no big deal at all.
Lack of communication is what i see in your relationship with him. you need to come right out, tell him about your feelings and sort things out. Keeping it inside won't help you solve the problem. It would eventually become a resentment and resentment is not healthy for a relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank u so much u make so much sense i really appreciate ur help and advice thanks
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