New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

Can Impotence be Caused by Emotional Problems?

Tagged as: Sex<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (8 January 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 10 January 2010)
A female age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Do you know anything about impotence caused by Emotional Problems? My husband is impotent and we don't know why. Now ,they checked out everything medically, but no answer to the question. Why is he impotent? So ,he gets an erection,not very long, but when he enters he losing it in a sec. Also,he says sex is not important on his mind. He is not excited about sex at all. His hormones are good..So it is totally crazy for me to deal with, as I always think ,it must be me somehow,even he says no. Well,is there anybody here has any experience here,with a no known cause of impotence? Or if it is emotional, what kind of causes it could be????? Thanks for any help!

View related questions: erection

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2010):

Thanks, it sis very difficult to deal with the ''unknown''. When it gets to be the that complex, I guess, there is nothing else we can do ,than make some decision.Like I think to say, if its not going to get better in the next 2 years I leave. But I really dont't know if this is the right way to see that.. He might never tells me what is wrong....What do you think? Am I right? Thanks again

<-- Rate this answer

A male reader, softtouchmale2003 United States +, writes (9 January 2010):

softtouchmale2003 agony auntIts something both of you have to work on with experts. Try a therapist first. It could very well be he's under a great deal of stress, it could be work; maybe a marital issue that's gone unresolved.

Who knows. Its probably not you per se though. Whatever it is, its something that's definitely interfering with his sexual desires. And whatever it is, its only going to get worse in other aspects of his life. If its messing up his appetite for sex, its going to ruin things for him in other areas where he derives pleasure.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2010):

It can be emotional or stress related even unhappiness or anger or problems in the relationship.

Or are you sure everything medically has been checked out.

It is possible that he has a circulatory problem which may indicate heart disease.

Diabetes, smoking, lack of exercise, being overweight, drugs or alcohol abuse all can lead to impotence.

I would get a second opinion and I am assuming he has seen a urologist...perhaps an internest would be better to run some more tests.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (8 January 2010):

DoubleM agony auntMany possible causes, and emotional and stress can be included.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "Can Impotence be Caused by Emotional Problems?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0156504999977187!