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writes:ok so I might get together with my girl later and I want some tricks on how to please her with my finger and mouth. we aren't having sex we are just helping each others urges. btw I am 18 Reply to this Question
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (8 January 2010):
 I want to let you know I'm 19 and in the same situation that you are. You can consider oral sex actual sex if you want to but I don't think that is the issue with you. If you two are comfortable talking to each other then as you two are going at it get her to you what she like and dislike then just experiment. It's hard to say exactly what will work since every woman is different. I recommend no direct clit stimulation because she may find that it is too sensitive. Try to use circles with your tongue and don't be in a hurry unless she tells you to pick up the pace. Hopefully you two can find something that really works for her and that some women comment since they would have that first hand experience.
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reader, Illithid  +, writes (8 January 2010):
 I hate to say it, but if you're using your mouth and fingers to help a girl relieve her urges, then that is still oral sex. Some people say third base is different than full blown sex, but as Bill Clinton made pretty clear a decade ago: sex is sex. ORAL sex, but still sex.
As for HOW to make it feel the best? Experiment. I could tell you what has worked for ME in the past, but that won't necessarily work for YOU. She has to guide you, tell you when you're doing something that works or doesn't work, and you two have to figure out how to satisfy her particular body.
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