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writes:MOD NOTE: 2 posts combined into one.I am 4 weeks pregnant and having issues. I dont believe in abortion , however having this baby is not the best idea at the moment. How safe is the abortion pill?2nd question: How would the abortion pill affect my biblical beliefs? I feel so torn.
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reader, unappeciatied +, writes (10 January 2010):
unappeciatied is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you guys for your honesty and support. I really need it.
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reader, meg2989 +, writes (10 January 2010):
 I have taken the abortion pill myself, you can get it up to the 8th week and 6 days of pregnancy, you cannot get it past the nineth week. The abortion pill IS safe, but there are always things to look out for everyone reacts differently. You would need to have someone with you during, and the day after. I am not a very religous person, I mean I believe in god, but I'm not the type to go to church or follow " religous structure" so to speak. But I have to tell you getting the abortion was the hardest thing in my life. It damages you so much emotionally. I thought I was prepared, and I can tell you no matter how "prepared" you think you are, nothing can really prepare you emotionally for it. Just make sure you brace yourself. If you are not ready for a baby then you are just not ready, you need to make a mature decision based on how well you believe you could care for the child. Don't feel guilty if you know its just not possible at this point in your life. But I would urge you to consider adoption, in case you can't go through with the abortion. It was very hard for me, but different people have different emotions too. It may not effect you as much as it did me. I hope that helped for what its worth. Best wishes and good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2010): dont worry,
if you dont feel ready for a baby maybe abbortion is the best option but what ever you do, dont forget its your choice nobody elses.
take time to think about it and if you had the ability at the moment to look after a baby, for example...a place to live, money for food and clothes?
why not leave it for a couple of days maybe and take time to think about it then if you feel its not the best option then thats up to you.
all the best and i hope you figure things out
mary-anne(14)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2010): biblical belied - muslims believe up until 3 months abortion is okay if its rape or its threating the mothers life at 3 months they believe it recieves its soul hence its just as important as its mother
catholic- IS TOTALLY AGAINST ABORTION IN ANY WAY
christian - is okay with abortion if certain circumstance rape its disabled making the mother ill etc
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