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*odie_Babe
writes:Hello!Please help me out.I started a new school this week and everything's going pretty much ok, I've started to fit in with people and such:But there is a boy there who I think is rather sweet (He has a very mild form of dyslexia) but he's very friendly and if people hadn't had told me about his condition I wouldn't have noticed he had it, as he is very intellegent.But I have noticed everyone leaves him out, so I started speaking to him and my friends come over and say "What are you doing? He is the last person you want to talk to!" and I was thinking that's just cruel but I wanted to know what they meant by it so I asked what was wrong with him their answer didn't give much away they just said "He is very odd and lonely." and I was thinking aww to myself like that's horrible, he's only lonely because you're all calling him weird.. I was upset for him.I know this sounds shallow but I don't know if I can be-friend him like I want to, because I might loose everyone else if I do so. So what am I going to do please help? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2010): Well since you've started a new school its much easier to chalk and change groups etc. I'd get to know this guy - and if the other guys don't like then thats tough. If they are true friends then they'd accept that you like talking to everyone. Plus, some of my best friends are the 'dorks' of the school and, as Luckshot said,they are much better people on the inside than those who are popular and loud. Good luck!
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reader, Dreamingz +, writes (8 January 2010):
 Hello :) There is no reason for anyone to judge him, or you if you befriend him, and also 'mild dyslexia' is especially not a reason for people to judge him! I mean, I have mild dyslexia and nobody judges me :/ if your friends are true friends they'll accept that you want to be friends with this guy :) please remind them that.. I hope I help a little bit :) Good luck! :)
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reader, Luckshot  +, writes (8 January 2010):
 If you like this guy and think he would be a good friend, who cares what others think. At the end of the day it's the outsiders that can be your most loyal friends for life i've found.
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