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writes:Me and my bf has been dating for 3 yrs and he still can't admit to anyone that I'm his gf and that he loves me. Its been going on since we started dating, he says he loves me and all this but then he's saying to everyone that I'm not his gf,its really messed up.but when no one is around he always says he loves me and no one else yada yada yada,but if he does love me he would admit he loves me But if anyone has any advice I would gladly take it. Reply to this Question
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reader, luake +, writes (9 January 2010):
honestly, i think hes cheating on you, and im am sooo sorry. i really do think that either you should talk to him about it, or just completly dump him cause you deserve a lot better
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2010): He's sounds like he's ashamed to admit that your his girlfriend which is unfair to you. Tell him that if he doesn't like having you as a girlfriend when you are around people then you won't be his girlfriend when you are both alone together. Hopefully he'll admit to other people that you are his girlfriend for the sake of your relationship. If he doesn't dump him. 3 years is a long time to hide from other people going out with someone.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (8 January 2010):
You need to talk to him about it very quickly. Tell him it's hurting you, ask him why he won't introduce you and get him talking.
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reader, MissKin +, writes (8 January 2010):
 tell him it's hurting you! I can understand him not wanting to blurt that he has a girlfriend out to every single person upon first greeting them, but to DENY that your his girlfriend isn't on at all and if he loved you then he wouldn't behave this way! It isn't fair on you. Tell him so. There must be a reason he's not telling anybody and if there's no "reason" why he's keeping ur relationship a secret, then there's no reason why he can't tell people your his girlfriend! you shouldn't put up with this. xx
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reader, Luckshot  +, writes (8 January 2010):
 If he loves you then he shouldnt be afraid to say it around other people, might be an idea to ask him about it face to face and see what he says.
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