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*lakbarbie
writes:well this guy that i liked for awhile finally likes me after he moves away and comes back and i finally told him that i like him. so we had hanging out and we tlkd n decied to have sex. i lied and told him that i wasnt a virgin when i was and his penis didnt go all the way in but it hurt really bad and i bled on his bed. he saw it and knew i was lying to him. when i got home i was bleeding when i peed and really sore, it hurt when i peed for a few weeks and i went to the doctor and she said i didnt have anything but iwas embaressd to ask her anything. later we talkd about it and he said he would go easy, we tried again and it still wouldnt go in and it hurt like the first time we tried. his condoms werent lubricated and ifeel like its my fault because i let him down. he didnt make a scene but i could tell he was disapointed. but i really feel like him and i feel like hes the one but i feel embareassed to talk about it cause it happend twice. i really like him and want to try again but idont know whats wrong. can anyone tell me whats happening. please help me!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2010): your vagina is still tight. after a few times it will loosen up and it will feel much better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2010): thanks everyone ur comments have helped but i think i need more so please read and help me out some more.. also i felt like i was ready andi still think i am but we tried again n it still wont go in..he ons to jump rite in so to speak but i dnt think hes one for alot of foreplay..he said he wud try it but idk wats next....but thanks for those who commented
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reader, Faraday  +, writes (7 January 2010):
 As others so often say on here, if you are bold enough to have sex, you should be brave enough to talk about it.
If it isn't just a broken hymen, you could have a problem down there and MUST go to your doctor asap to have things checked out.
Oh, and to answer your headline question - he got it in, even if only part of the way, so you are NOT a virgin.
Sorry.
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reader, tonik  +, writes (7 January 2010):
 The fact his penis was in but not completely in means you are no longer a virgin, and it happened that he broke your hymen which lead to you bleeding. There is nothing to be embarassed about. If you want to get used to him, I suggest you not to take a long time before having a sexual intercourse.
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