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male
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30-35,
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writes:okay i have this problem im 20 yrs old and i dont know why im having this doubt that i might be gay first of all i never fantisised bout a man i never looked at a man and said i want to be wit him or sexual toughts i always thought dat was wrong and how can that happen because of all da beautiful girls in this world i researched bout am i gay and mostly the stories say thst when they were small they fantisised about men , looked at gay porn and liked it and they would get erections from looking at boys and having sexual thoughts i never had dat i always looked at porn i would love how the girl would moan and how they looked i masturbated to the movies i would get an erection wen i saw girls and i would fantisise about what would i do to the girl and i recently lost my virginity to girl wich was a total stranger and i got erctions like i never did wen we was together but we had sex and i like it because it was feeling good and stuff we did it two times a different dsy but it wasnt like omg like i thought it would be and now im thinking i could be gay ..also i work wit a lot of gay men and dey like to say gay stuff to me wich i dnt like and dont want to hear i get goosebumps just by hearing that stuff and ill be like shut up and dey also say dat dey had met men like me and had came out and i guess thats gettin to me now it never did in my life i always crushed on girls i even have one of exs name tattoed on my leg because she was my first love and now i have this girl dat has my heart and i want to be with her for the rest of my life but this doubt is interfering with that is putting alot of doubts in my mind and i also found that dere is hocd wich is a type of compulsive disorder and i used to have anxiety disorder and i researched it and it sounds like i have dat i really need help because dats not the lifestyle i want i want a girl to loe me make her my wife and have kids please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (7 January 2010):
Hello again.
Seriously. You are not gay. If you read enough stuff on the internet you will convince yourself you are a zebra.
Stop obsessing and go and date some GIRLS and you'll find you forget this.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Aussie girl  +, writes (7 January 2010):
 At this stage I really don't think you have anything to worry about, you are still young and still exploring your sexuality. Having alot of gay men around you trying to convince you that you're gay probably isn't helping you either.You seem to have all the symptons of a healthy hetrosexual male, but if you find yourself being attracted to another man then that's normal too, you can admire another mans body without being gay.And if you are gay, is that so bad? Gay couples, male and female now have the opportunity to become parents too.You cant choose who you fall for, your heart just takes you where its meant to be.
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