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writes:Hello, I'm 15 years old and I look at pictures of naked women online sometimes, which I like very much :/ and also when I'm out shopping and I pass a lingerie section, I always stare at the models, quite aroused. But the thing is I'm totally into guys too, I've had a boyfriend and stuff... I know this is a typical teenage problem, blah blah blah, but I really needed to get this out 'cause I don't like it, and I don't have anyone to talk about it to... Reply to this Question
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reader, LLindy87  +, writes (8 January 2010):
 So thinking a girl is hot when you're a girl is not wrong. I am a 22 year old straight female and I've had thoughts about girls before. But like a previous poster said, actually doing sexual acts with girls just doesn't cut it for me. I like my guys :)
However, I do have a chick crush on helena boham carter lol. And I'm an art student and enjoy drawing the female body way more then the male body but I think its because its more curvy and fun to draw lol Idk.
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reader, Lorenn. +, writes (8 January 2010):
i'm the same age as you. i haven't actually been in this situation myself. But it's natural. We often get confused about our emotions. But it will all fade out naturally and as we get older realise who we are actually attracted too. You shouldn't worry about it too much. It's most likely a phase you're going through, hormones etc etc. But if you need further advice just let me know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2010): well hello! i am fifteen years old, and i am a bisexual. I've had feelings like that for girls for years. it's completely normal to expierience wierd sexual feelings when your our age, though. i have engaged in sexual acts with both men and women. i honestly prefere women. But don't worry about what your feeling, it really is normal. (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2010): I don't understand why everyone jumps straight to bisexual/bicurious when answering questions like these. I'm a heterosexual female, but I can definitely relate to your situation. The simple fact is... women are beautiful! There's absolutely nothing wrong with appreciating that. But for me, personally, the thought of actually engaging in any sexual activity with another woman just doesn't do it for me.
I guess what I'm saying is, you very well could have bisexual tendencies... or you could be more inclined towards homosexuality or heterosexuality. No one knows at this stage. The only thing that's certain is that you're a teenager and what you're going through is completely normal, so just relax and enjoy :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2010): I wouldn't worry.
Your hormones are going haywire right now, re-configuring your body to do what comes naturally... sex and child-bearing.
If, by the time the transition is complete and the hormones come under control, you still feel this way... then you can consider yourself bisexual.
Flynn 24
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reader, Redd_Extacy +, writes (8 January 2010):
 Wow...Umm Maybe you should try out relationships with both males and females and see what it is that you really find attractive...obviously,you are deeply into the same sex.if this is who you are,are you unhappy about it because of what others may think?if so its unhealthy to think that way.if ypu think about what other people have to say, you will never really b happy..I hope this comment helped a little :) Just do what makes you happy..
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reader, Sexualhealthadviser +, writes (7 January 2010):
 hi
well i shall start with, your still young and are very sensative yet, regarding your question i think that your going through a sexual comfort stage you like both sex's, you are not the only one there are hundreds and thousands of people around the uk that are going through the same as you, but most cant speak about it to anyone as they are frightened and dont know how people close to them will react like. my advise would be follow your heart and true gut feeling.
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reader, ashaseth01  +, writes (7 January 2010):
Hi
I know how you feel. But there isnt anything to worry about. Its just a passing phase. You are growing up and your hormones have taken control of your body. Silk, lingerie and naked bodies all yell sex and that is why your body reacts to them. Dont worry. There is nothing wrong with you. Most girls go through this phase and its a part of growing up. So have fun. Enjoy life. Everything will work out fine.
All the best. :)
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reader, Jager +, writes (7 January 2010):
you feel like you're the only person you know who feels like this but you're not. You sound bicurious this is nothing to worry about. there are lots of people who you know who are going through the same thing and wont talk about it because there frightened.
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