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writes:ok so here is the deal. I wrote previously about some other guy. We ended up breking up becuase he became distant after finding out i didnt want to believe the doctors about me having a misscarriage and i have been fine until now.I turned 21 on the 20th of Dec. I'm hittin the bar scene. I meet this guy. His names Stephen, we get to talking in and out side the bar. I go home with him the night we go on a date(2nd night i seen him). We have sex. He makes me squirt and is amazing in bed. No problem, i can handle this. He is just amazing in general. He is very talented and very sweet, but can be a dick(in a good way, guess only woman will understand what i mean by that). Lets not forget he is totally handsome, my perfect fit. We text all the time. I have been seeing him everyday since our first date. I try to hold back what i feel, but I realized just tonight that i like him alot more than i planned on at this point. I am NOT about to drop the L bomb, just so you know. Should i give it a couple days or weeks to hangout with him agan or should i keep wearing my heart on my sleeve and see what happens?
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reader, a_seidner06 +, writes (7 January 2010):
a_seidner06 is verified as being by the original poster of the question want to thank you guys so much. Great advice! This morning he called me and we decided tht we were moving too fast so taking it slow again has put me into perspective and im content with our decision. Thank you guys again! :D
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (7 January 2010):
 Hey, just keep wearing your heart on your sleeve and see what happens, your only just hit the party scene so theres plenty more where all that fun came from. Your only in your twenties for a few years so if i can say anything ... have fun and enjoy life!
About the being a dick thing, he may simply just lack the seductive etiquitte of a true gentleman (not to be mistaken for a pussy boy!) and he chooses to go the otherside of the coin in the bad boy arena, either way both sides have there own styles in men and women and that depends on what side of the coin or the fence you want to be as well. I'm sure a young classy gentleman would take pleasure in slowly seducing you to extatic enlightenment. you hve alot of time and adventourous times ahead!
So have fun, enjoy life and don't worry about these things too much right now.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (7 January 2010):
You're right to take this slow. So far there's been a lot of lust, but not anything about future and love. You need to slow down a bit and really get to know him before anything else. He might be good looking and great in bed, but you mention the word dick, which to any male means he's a bad boy who you need to wary of. Don't open up too quickly to find you've been used.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (7 January 2010):
You're right to take this slow. So far there's been a lot of lust, but not anything about future and love. You need to slow down a bit and really get to know him before anything else. He might be good looking and great in bed, but you mention the word dick, which to any male means he's a bad boy who you need to wary of. Don't open up too quickly to find you've been used.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (7 January 2010):
You're right to take this slow. So far there's been a lot of lust, but not anything about future and love. You need to slow down a bit and really get to know him before anything else. He might be good looking and great in bed, but you mention the word dick, which to any male means he's a bad boy who you need to wary of. Don't open up too quickly to find you've been used.
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