A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I've slept with my friend a few times and have started to develop feelings for him. The last couple of months he has started to behave distant for about a week after sex! We use to email/text/facebook all day everyday. So I'm quite disheartened and basically feel used. I usually ignore him back and then he starts trying to contact me again by email and commenting on my facebook... I hold back for a while cuz Im upset and we never talk about the fact we crossed the friendship line... We just act like nothing has happened then have sex again and the circle of life continues. I thought we had progress last time we had sex. He cuddled me all nite and talked to me about stuff the sex was sweet and nice... Then he went back to ignoring me...Well I have to say... I am over it! I don't get him. He gets scared if I act too keen yet hates it when I ignore him and goes to great lengths to speak to me. I need to get over this guy... He is just not that into me *sigh* but he is making it hard when he is my face all the time.We have known each other for 25 years so its a HUGE deal we have hooked up and none of our mutual friends know. I have been ignoring him all week. He sent an email to me and my mate (who he hates) and started talking about hot chicks he was checking out! I saw this as an immature way of give me "hints" he is not interested... I didnt reply and I want to ignore him... I want him to miss our friendship the way I have the last 6 months. I have been way too available for him. I didn't think u had to play "the game" if u were close mates. He even missed my bday last year... He used to ring me at 5am to wish me a happy birthday... Kinda hurts. He isn't one of those player either. He's shy and lacks confidence and isn't very experienced. He's never had a GF. I dont understand why he doesnt like me like that... He is a male version of me... He have the same sense of humour. He even copies my lil traits now... its like we are the same person? Plus Im an attractive young chick ;p!! He isnt all that good looking... But I really LOVE who he is!! ARGH!!What should I do about this guy? Is it wrong of me to just want to ignore him and disappear off the face of the earth until I am over it??? I have a feeling he isnt going to go away that easy as he still wants to be friends.. I just cant right now... its too hard :(
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