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*heaterlover
writes:My boyfriend and i have been going out for three months. we were both each other's first kiss, so we're both fairly new to the whole kissing thing but i really want him to make out with me but he hasn't even tried. i think he's afraid he'll do it wrong, so he is just pushing it off. does that make sense? how do i get him to pick up the pace? and once he actually tries, what do i do?ahhh! so many questions! Any help would be great!
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reader, Jager  +, writes (7 January 2010):
i agree light the fire so to speak. Go up to your guy and simply kiss him. make the first move simples
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (7 January 2010):
 ooo this is cute since i can sleep it has something to do with a big container of mountain dew i will try and help.
heres what you do go up to your guy tell him how hot and manly he is and lay a big wet kiss on him , lol
look its natural you dont even have to kno what to do like a baby learns to walk and talk because its just how things work you allready kno the basics trust your intsicts.
The boy seems shy so you need to light a fire, be a little more agressive take initiative
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (7 January 2010):
 Don't wait for him to make the first move, do it yourself. I don't mean throw yourself at him all at once but make out with him first and he'll realize that there is no need to be nervous with you. Since you two were both each others first kiss you're both in the same position of learning and understand each other. He is just nervous that he'll do something you don't like which chances are will happen and when it does don't make a big deal about it.
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reader, Jacqueline19 +, writes (7 January 2010):
Some guys are gist nervous, try taking the lead, it is always impressive, start slow and are where it goes
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (7 January 2010):
 You can make the first move in that direction too you know.
You will find in time too, that everyone kisses differently, so it is hard to tell anyone how to go about it, especially when another party and their own individual technique comes in to it.
As I recall, first time I kissed a guy it just come naturally, nothing awkward about it. You'll probably find the same for you guys if you stop worrying so much about what you are doing and just do it.
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reader, Adhocracy +, writes (7 January 2010):
Look love, you seem to be avoiding it as well =). If you want to hook up with him then just do it. Considering the fact that neither of you will know what you are doing means you will be able to not know what you are doing with eachother =D.
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