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*ames_501
writes:Hi, I had a 3 month relationship with someone recently which I knew wasn't going to be long-term as she is going to live in australia in a few months. She didn't want anything serious and she stopped the relationship. I was still very down as we got on so well.I liked her a lot as she was into doing lots of things and had a great sense of humour. We had a few things in common like rugby and I just liked her.I've had to get over her but I really struggle to find women who I am attracted to and that are compatible with me. That is people who are fun, like to get out there and do things and aren't tied up in their careers which I find a bit boring.Do you have suggestions as to how I might give myself the best chance of meeting someone similar to her but available for a proper relationship. My friends are all settled down, work is a very professional environment which makes it hard to meet people and although I like running and cycling it is not conducive to meeting women. I'm on a dating website and have tried it before but don't find it the best way to meet as there is no body language on a computer!James Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (7 January 2010):
You won't find one like her. She's one and only. Every woman is different, and you need to be aware of that. If you're looking for someone like her, you won't find her because she doesn't exist. You need to be totally over this other woman first. Also, a good way of meeting women is to do something like dancing, where they will be. And you can get to know them too.
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