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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been going out for over a year and i'm only 17, starting university in september. Everything is going great for me but for about two months now i've not been attracted to him or feel like i love him any more. I've told him how i felt and should we break up but he was having none of it. Yesterday he changed his mind and said he couldn't be with me if i didn't love him any more. That really scared me and it suddenly hit me that i could be alone??? So I told him that we should sleep on it and talk tomorrow. I can't bring myself to be alone and I'm running out of excuses to put off the coversation about the break up. Please help me!! I've never gone through a break up like this, this is the longest relationship I've had and it took about 6 months for me to get him in the first place =[.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2010): You are 17! You just started living! Immaturity on both sides just spews from your words, sorry if I offend, but you sound like a typical teen who is not mature enough to be in a relationship and second to think that this guy is the first and only in your life. You are near college age; believe me, if you dump him and enroll in college you'll have more than enough guys to choose from. Also, find someone who's a bit older than you, who's college educated, maybe employed and I can assure you that his more mature perspective will be refreshing.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (7 January 2010):
It's time for you to move on from him. It would be wrong and cruel just to keep him there because you feel alone, not because you love him. You're about to start university, and that is your time to start again. Let him move him, and you move on yourself. You'll find another guy, there are 3 billion in the world. But now it's time you focused on your own life and your future. It's better to be alone than to be with someone you don't love. End it with him and move on with your own life now.
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