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I need us to TALK... but can't get the chance. What do I do next?

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Question - (7 January 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 January 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

So I have some trust issues, and this past weekend, my boyfriend and I fought like crazy. The next day, I wanted him to come over so we could talk about it in a calm and rational way. He tells me that he already made plans to hang out with friends. That was fine, I figured he needed some time to cool off. The next day, we hung out, but he suggested we go to some party. I just wanted to sit down and talk alone with him..and it hurt me that he didn't want the same thing. Then, the day after that, he didn't ask me to hang out at all, he just went to a party at some girls house, and didn't even think of asking me to go... I'm clueless and do not know what to do next.

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A male reader, DeadEyeDick United States +, writes (8 January 2010):

DeadEyeDick agony auntHe's obviously not ready to talk and your trying to push him into it, a word of warning, let it go! or he may never come back to talk to you again! Ive been there and know exactly whats going on! it's almost like your mothers making you come in and talk to her!

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