A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hey i was just wondering if some of you could give me some advice. I really like this girl, but i don't really know how to approach her. I do fairly well with girls, like i can talk to girls and get with them without to much hassle. I never find it hard to talk to girls but i just can't find it in myself to go and talk to this girl. I guess it's probably because i really like this girl, probably more than i've ever liked anyone before. But it's also kind of because we both hang out in completely different groups, so she's not particularly good friends with anyone in my group and to be honest i don't really like a few people in her group. Any way i know that she is a really nice girl that i would like to talk to but i just can't bring myself to do it. Any advice would be really appreciated. Reply to this Question Share |
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male
reader, The Realist +, writes (25 January 2010):
It is always harder to talk to a girl who you're really interested in you. If she's interested at all then she has already noticed you and your best bet is to go up to her when she is alone, since her friends may make it difficult for you. Just go up to her and introduce yourself, talk to her for a bit and ask if she would like to go out some time. Now, you have to suggest something then and it is best to be somewhere where you two can talk and get to know each other. Act like you always do and don't worry, the worst she can say is no and then atleast you'll know where you stand and can move on.Good luck.
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