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writes:I'm sixteen and a guy I know at school has offered to give me my first blowjob. What are the potential consequences of having a blowjob both emotional and physical? Is it really that big a deal?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2010): honestly, it is harmless to you, but it could have some connotations to the guy that you wouldn't want to deal with. He may assume that you like him, which could be quite awkward, and he might feel used afterwards. And if he isn't trustworthy, he may blab all about it, ruining his and your reputations. But, if you're going to get your first blowjob soon, I recommend a guy. Everyone knows that we give better blowjobs.
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (7 January 2010):
 "Is it really that big a deal?" this quote of your is the heart of your question. Yes, blow job is big deal emotionally, but physically it is harmless job.
If you are sure and certain, that you truly love him, means you know your feeling for sure, then it is good. It will certainly bring high degree of intimacy, but if you lack real intimacy, then it will bring lot of emotional hurting also.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2010): Hey,well.. the first blowjob is an interesting experience, because you are both nervous and excited about it. You should do it with someone you trust and feel comfortable with so that the experience results pleasurable and not awkward. Physically, none. Emotionally a lot. This will be how you remember foreplay. And if the guy is a man whore, or a bitchy person he might make some cynical comments about your member later on.. hope it helped
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reader, Emjo  +, writes (7 January 2010):
 so your male, making me assume your either homosexual or bisexual? am i right?Perhaps for your first one you should wait until your in a relationship with someone? It would make it more comfortable for you i would imagine.Obvisously i cannot give you proper advice without more details but what strikes me is that if your asking about it your unsure and that in itself is a stong reason not to do it.Hope that helped x
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reader, paulofessex +, writes (7 January 2010):
 I would say that you have to be in the correct emotional state of mind prior to and during the oral sex otherwise it won't be like your no doubt hoping.What do you know about this lad, is their history between you. Can you trust him, is he using you, by this l mean is it a set up in order for him to humiliate you (worth thinking about)Also talk to each other i.e. what does he expect in return, make sure if you say no or stop that he understands you mean it. Hygiene is an important factor i.e. make sure he has no mouth ulcers, coldsores etc and off make sure your penis is free from any sores etc.Please don't rush into anything, in my opinoin oral sex is an itinmate sexual act bewteen 2 people Best wishes
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