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writes: so i have been dating this guy for 6months now..well distance is a problem.but we do our best.we talk evryday and try to make things work..but he told me that he kissed a girl and let her give him a BJ..i appreciate hes honesty but it hurt.what do i do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, ms.rafaeli +, writes (9 January 2010):
The fact that he admittted it was one thing. But the fact that he cheated on you was another thing. Anotehr BIG thing... LDR could work for some people but he's cheated you. You guys are separated. He might as well doing the same thing in future. I say, find another guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2010): Red flag... if he cheated and still admitted it, he has guts. Dumb, but honest. Dump him. Believe me, long distance eases the breakup and before long, you'll forget him if you get occupied with work, hobbies, and other activities.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (7 January 2010):
I take it this happened while you were together, so I 'll answer for that. It's a long distance relationship, and LDR's require a huge amount of commitment to make them work. If one person isn't committed, it won't work. He has cheated on you. The fact is, that proves he's not committed enough for this. You'd do better to move on.
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