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male
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30-35,
*ntPain
writes:Basically, me and my girlfriend have recently started to have sex. She's the first girlfriend I've had that I've been having sex with and when we first started doing it I lasted quite a while.Within a few times of doing it i had lasted 90 minutes. But, now we've done it a lot more and I've gotten more comfortable with the idea I've started going very very quickly.I can still get my girlfriend to climax in the time i have but literally its like 2 minutes. I really want to last even a little longer to satisfy her more and to reboost my confidence.Is this because I've become used to just "getting sex" and now psychologically my brain thinks i dont need to last longer? Bearing in mind we do have a lot of foreplay beforehand, I'm "easy" and have even tried to masturbate more often (sorry if that sounds a bit wrong) so I'm not as eager.Please help.
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reader, Jager +, writes (7 January 2010):
well i think you dont need to worry at all. If you managed to last 90minutes then you'll be fine you just need to remain in control and not go so fast. have sex slower. Failing that there are condoms you can get with lube in that makes you last longer
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