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writes:I am 27 and have never had a girlfriend and my only sexual experience equates to a string of infrequent one night stands over the last 8 years.Recently I have noticed that I have become premature to a worrying extent.My question is this, when I next meet a girl and things are going well enough that this becomes an issue, should I mention it? And if so when? Or do I let the girl find out the normal way. Both are extremely embarassing and I'm guessing its best to say first, probably just before. Let me know what you think.
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reader, LoveIsRough  +, writes (23 February 2010):
 Just don't tell them on the first, second, third, fourth date..Okay? Wait a month until your exclusive. Sex should only happen in a monogomous relationship..where you two are exclusive and only seeing each other. Sex also can ruin a relationship, so give it some time....Before you have sex..talk to her get to know her. You might not even have to tell her...if your saying you are "small", she'll find that out in the bedroom, and DONT tell her about your one night stands before she tells you about her best relationships.
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reader, veronika  +, writes (23 February 2010):
 I'd personally prefer it if a boyfriend told me instead of having me just find out.
I would say a the best time to talk about it is when you two feel like you want to have sex for the first time with each other. If she gets scared off because of it, then she's just immature and not worth it.
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