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writes:Heyy, im 16 and there's this 26 yr old on a place i always go on holiday. he always flirts so much with me when people are around and offers sex and all that as a joke, and to be honest i love the attention, in fact ive fallen for him. one night when we were out with two other people he drove us up to this car park and he kissed me then, it was amazing. when he asked me to go out with him on the last night i was so excited thinking he would kiss me and hopefully a bit more, but he only kissedd me wen i sed bye and barely flirted at all, and it seemed it ws because noone else was there .. :( im really comfused. does he like me or is he just flirting to seem cool in front of other people :S Help!
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reader, The Corporate Casanova  +, writes (9 March 2010):
 It would seem to me that this guy you were going out with must have fallen so deeply in love with you that he must have forgotten to flirt with you. Maybe he wanted something much more from you, maybe a more serious relationship, but if his behavior is highly monitored by his friends (or other onlookers), this could be a pattern of a casual affair. What you view this scenario is up to you; at least try to analyze his behavioral patterns, what he does in his spare time.
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reader, Mercutio6 +, writes (22 February 2010):
Well, he is probably afraid of being taken seriously by other people because if you two get involved he could face serious trouble and probably jail time. The best way to avoid this for him is to feign playful flirting, as if he is "just messing around" with the jail bait in front of friends. This allows him to avoid too much suspicion while still keeping you open as a sexual possibility.
Stay away from this guy. He is undoubtedly stringing you along, knowing most young girls love attention, using your youth and naivete to manipulate you. If you end up pursuing this you are going to get hurt.
I know that he is older and that is exciting for you, but give yourself a few years (at least until you are 18) before you begin exploring that (it isn't as far away as you think it is). There are plenty of guys your age who would love to give you the attention you want.
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