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30-35,
*hnookims
writes:I am in the third year of my relationship with my fiance, we've been living together for 2 years and I am now 4 and half months pregnant with our second child. Things went very well with my fiance last year, he qualified, has since been promoted and his band is finally getitng off the ground. The problem is I'm crazy paranoid now because his new job entails spending at least a little of every day sitting in an office with a secretary I've met twice before. She is extremely firtatious in front of me and so I can't help wondering if it's the same or worse when I'm not around. His car broke down a couple of weeks ago and I had to pick him up from his work. He filled me in on all the details except that this week I found out that she was in the car with him, driving to the shops, when whatever it was snapped. He says he forgot that she was there. The other day he got home and she had got a new fancy brand new car and had let him drive her to the bank in it. He couldn't stop talking about her car. Then the next day she brought her baby to work (her baby from a one night stand)and when he got home he just spoke about her child, who's a year younger than our daughter. I try not to voice these paranoid feelings too much as I don't want to push him away. It's not that I don't trust him, I honestly don't believe that he wants to sleep with her but it's really getting me down that I'm sitting at home, wiping up pooh and growing bigger every day whilst he's sitting with her. He talks about no one else in the office. I know he comes home to me every night (lately mostly when I'm already sleeping) but I'm also really aggravated and exhausted when he does and thinking about this girl makes it worse.
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reader, mr toyboy +, writes (22 February 2010):
Then speak to him, tell him you dont feel comfortable with his closeness with this woman.
He should understand how you feel.
If hes constantly talking about her, it means hes beginning to take interest in her and with time, this could spell disaster for you.
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