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writes:Alright, so there's this chick that I work with. I'm always talking to her when we work together, and we get along pretty well, but we've never really gotten to a very personal level, it's mostly just small talk. She's 5 or 6 years older than me though. So the other day I was working, and something happened that caught me totally off-guard. We were chit chatting, and all of a sudden she basically asked me to come out with her to the city that night. I told her that I already had plans that night (which I did), but asked if I could take her up on the offer some other time, and she said yes. However, I feel like she felt a little reluctant when I asked her this. She's REALLY cute, but the thing is, we live completely different lifestyles. She's a pharmacist, and I'm a stock boy, I make almost nothing while she makes six digits. I've had a thing for her for the longest time though, but I don't know how to go about taking her out on a date. I'm a really nervous person most of the time, especially when it comes to girls that I really like. And looking at it now, I feel like I should've just cancelled what I was doing and gone with her, I feel like I let a really good opportunity go, which sucks more than anything seriously. Any advice on how I might go about this and possibly take this girl out? I could REALLY use it!
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (9 March 2010):
 Dont let your difference in work / salary make your decision, it means nothing in love.
Tell her you are sorry you couldnt go with her the last time but you had a night out that was already planned for a while and would have been hard to get out of.
Ask her if she would like to go out for a drink, take her to a nice place and buy the first drink, let her buy too, take alterante turns.
Get chatting and take it from there, listen to her well when she is talking, girls like guys who listen.
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