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*iket389
writes:Just looking for a little advice here... ive been dating a girl now for a couple months and its been great, everything i could ask for and more.. however the last week has left me questioning one or two things. She doesn't seem as excited or just not as close as we were right at first.. for example its been a week since we've had sex last.. and she doesn't seem as Pyhiscal as she was.. the only reason this bothers me is because ive had a rough road of being hurt and this is the stuff thats happend and everything has gone south in the past.. i feel that its different this time because she is under some stress and has been feeling a little "crampy" as its almost that time.. we spend a lot of time together and she has apologized for being a lttle distant.. im just wondering if i should give her some space or what.. i don't want this to go south like every other girl it seems... please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, Miket389 +, writes (23 February 2010):
Miket389 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks:) she does give a different vibe than other girls ive been with.. its just hard not to think bad things when thats all thats happend to you in the past.. i almost don't want to say anything.. i don't want to seem insecure.. i suppose maybe its going into a comfort stage as where im used to it going downhill.. i just hope things work for me this time
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reader, Jezebella +, writes (22 February 2010):
Some girls get like that when they need space yes thats true but im sure thats not in this case.you said shes under alot of stress and you should ask her why and have a conversation about whats going on and exsplain why her behavior is makeing you nervouse.if shes under stress she may just need you to be there for her and hold her and asure her everything will be fine.as for the sex if shes under pressure sex isnt going to help because it adds more pressure so just give her time to deal with the pressure shes faceing now with you by her side and in no time at all you will be back to having lots of sex.:)have fun and good luck hope i helped
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reader, Cassie918  +, writes (22 February 2010):
Hey well i can kinda understand how u feeling as thats exactly how my boyfried felt. personally the reason why i went kinda "distant" was because i felt so comfortable and happy with him that i kinda didnt need to be having sex all the time if that makes sense. As you said shes feeling a bit crampy maybe you do need to give her space but at the time reassuring her that you will always there for her . 3
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