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writes:I'm a 15 year old guy, and I'm pretty much only turned on by gay porn, or pictures of naked guys. I used to watch straight porn and when I was 12 I messed around with a girl (we gave each other handjobs and even tried to have sex once) and enjoyed it a lot. However, one day we were caught and got in a ton of trouble. Not too long after that I started watching gay porn and I've been watching it ever since. I haven't ever been in a serious relationship with anyone, but the idea of being with a guy kind of grosses me out. I don't want to be gay - if I see a hot girl I will fantasize about being with her, but she won't turn me on, especially not the way guys do. Am I gay? Or have I turned myself gay by watching gay porn?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2010): I have the same problem
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reader, mselu08 +, writes (23 February 2010):
I think that maybe when you got caught messing around with a girl and you got into a lot of trouble, you felt ashamed of what you were doing. So subconsciously, you turned to gay porn because you are ashamed of getting caught with a girl. You were and still are so young. Especially at 12, children are at the most critical point of psychological development. If you think this may be right, you might want to talk to a counselor about it to get down to the bottom of your feelings.
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reader, BettyBoup  +, writes (22 February 2010):
 Hey.
Try not to worry about this too much. Lots of people get turned on and are attracted to men and women at different times in their lives. You dont need to label yourself gay, straight or bi, or anything if you dont want to. You are just 15 so you are still developing your sexuality. Give it some time and see how your feelings change.
I don't think you can turn yourself gay by watching porn. If you're not really gay, if your heart's not in it you'll know. It's totally fine to experiment with porn and sex with both sexes of you want to(above legal age is advisable). So don't stress out too much about your sexuality, just have fun with it and I'm sure you'll figure out where you stand.
Relationships arent about whether they are male or female, its about the person you love.
Good luck :)
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reader, Polaroid93 +, writes (22 February 2010):
Lots of people are turned on by people of the same sex. It's no confirmation.
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