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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I dont know if im the only female who really feels this way.. but i hate my boobs ..extremly. Most boys always tell me I have nice boobs, because there larger then most girls yet I still maintain a small body But I on the other hand hate them I think they look abnormal and totally gross.. Im embarrssed.. no guy has ever told me I have ugly boobs..or something but as for I ..I hate them I hate every part of them ..I feel as though my nipples are to large.. and everything is wrong..Doctors have told me my boobs are perfectly normal nothing wrong.. but why do I feel the exact oppssite.. How do I make myself more confident and less afraid to let my bf see them??
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reader, bOROi +, writes (6 April 2010):
You can trust boys when they give opinion especially re your boobs. They are particularly harsh and truthful esp if your boobs are ugly, theres no reason for them to lie.
So if I were you appreciate and be happy with what god has given you, am sure most if not all would want to have a ir similar to yours.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2010): There are whole sub-categories of porn about big boobs, natural boobs, even saggy boobs. No matter how weird your body is to you there are probably at least some guys out there who like exactly that.
But being dissatisfied with your body is not fun even when others are telling you not to be. It's still your body and your preference might not be for what you were born with.
It might help to remember that guys are not looking for what the girl wants herself to look like, they are looking for what THEY like. Many other people really won't feel the same way about your body as you do.
You can get a breast reduction surgery but I really think it should be a last resort. It leaves scarring and it may permanently hurt sensitivity in the area.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (22 February 2010):
You seem to have rather low self esteem if guys are telling you you're okay, and if your doctor is telling things are wrong. This might sound stupid,but spend time on your boobs. go and get a bra fitted or something and smile at yourself and them in the mirror. Also look back into your past. Were you bullied because of them?
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