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writes:I am married for 10 years with 2 kids, 2 years old boy and a 4 years old girl. My wife and I have been to therapy and everything possible to save our marriage. I am the person that did look for the therapy and is always looking for a “salvation” for our marriage and willing to sacrifice anything from my part to help my wife and my family. I do not have a lover and had never cheated on my wife. My kids are very attached to me to the point that my wife sometimes get jealous. When I got home after 5pm from work I take full care of then teaching, taking then to places, playing, feeding and putting then to bed with prayer and book reading. My wife works at night as a teacher. I got to the point that I cannot continue with her anymore. We really don’t match, my wife refuse to go to any therapy for herself to resolve her issues. I cannot leave my kids. They are my life.I CANNOT LEAVE MY KIDS AND I CANNOT STAY WITH MY WIFE
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reader, Rider +, writes (23 February 2010):
Rider is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your Replies. I just find a lot of hard time on my mind thinking how they are going to be taking care when I'm not around.Whit all due respect, I don't consider my wife and her family that for sure will became very involve with the kids very bright.When I come home after work I give the kids health snacks like fruits, almonds and other stuff that my wife claim that she doesn't have the time to give to the kids.I was the one that teach there abc's, counting, colors in two languages and care very much about their learning.Sometimes I think that I should wait and get more prepare for it.
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (23 February 2010):
Sorry to hear your situation. Why don't you have full custody or joint custody. Joint custody, especially if you try find accomodation close to your current home can be workable. You can take them for every night and drop them at school in the morning then she picks them and keeps them till after dinner. Its not easy and would require a lot of sacrifice but it can be done. Maybe later when you start dating again then you can get full custody. Or if she agrees you can remain in the same home living in different bedrooms and leading separate lives.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2010): So you have a 4 yrae old and a 2 year old....she was good enough when you were making her pregnant and making her carry them for 9 months and give birth to them...And only now you realise you do not want her!! Typical men!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2010): Divorce, seek custody of your kids or arrive at a mutually-agreed child-sharing agreement.
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