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writes:I'm 16 and a couple days ago I lost my virginity. It was with my 2 year long BF and I'm glad I waited till I was 16 and did 'it' with the right person. But, will my friends who haven't 'done it' yet think I'm a slut or will they still be the same around me but still ask questions? I don't know what to tell them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2010): Let me tell you from what I would feel. If they call you a slut, not only are they immature, but they are also very jealous. I'm jealous, so there is no need to feel like an outcast. In the high school world, it basically means you have accomplished that every teen movie in the world sets as a standard. If they comment, take it as a compliment. After all, they are just shedding their inhibitions and fears on someone, trying to make you the victim.
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reader, Jodii3  +, writes (22 February 2010):
Your friends would have no right to brand you as a slut or they arent true friends. They should respect you for waiting until you were of a legal age, as long as you were ready then that is all that matters. Honestly your personal sex life doesnt have anything to do with them so you shouldnt feel as if you have to tell them if you dont want to :). In my eyes a slut is someone who moves on and into another guys pants within days/weeks. You clearly are not this by waiting 2 years and i respect you for that so they should to :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2010): I'm 15 and me and my boyfriend have been together a year now, we had sex. It was both of our first times, it got out to the school but nobody says anything negative about it because they know that we are happy and we love each other very much and it really wont matter what they think anyways. If people wanna talk and say you are a slut that is none of their business in my opinion.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2010): TO be honest- its your sex life and you do not have to tell your friends anything. My friends have no idea when i started having sex or with who etc, it was my life, not their's therefore they did not need to know. Your sex life should be kept between you and your boyfriend unless you need to talk about it then i'd choose one close friend or parent or sibling who you know can be trusted. Your friends have no right to know anything so don't tell them - what they don't know won't hurt them etc. And you have been with your boyfriend for two years therefore you are not a slut - had you had six partners within 2 weeks then i'd be questioning your loose-ness but you are in a long term committed relationship - you are defo not a slut. Stuff the friends - its yours and your boyfriend's opinion that matter :)
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