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She was pushing me to have sex with her and once we did, we just stopped talking to each other! Why did this happen?

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Question - (22 February 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 February 2010)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I was dating a girl that is a little older than me. I really enjoyed spending time with her. I feel like I was an amazing guy to her by doing a little surprise here and there that would make her day and I always told her how beautiful she is. I put off having sex with her, and don't get me wrong, I really wanted to but I didn't want to mess anything up. What I can't figure out though is that she was the one who was pushing me to have sex. We did, and then we just stopped talking to each other completely no nothing. Why?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (22 February 2010):

That's a bit different. Sounds like she used you. One of the few times I've heard of a woman doing that. You could try talking to her again, in case she just feels a bit awkward about it. But don't expect anything.

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