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writes:Hey just after a bit of advice. I met this guy about 6 months ago after seeing him around a bit. At first he was really keen texting me etc and went to his house a couple of times after meeting up out (didn't have sex though). Then he started to back off, like if he saw me out he would be all over me but he wouldn't text me during the week or anything. We had a few fights (being drunk and all of course I confronted him about this)His friends said that he was really into me until the incident but now he will back off. He does seem like a bit of a ladies man. Part of it is my fault though coz I am a really bad drunk dialler and did this to him a few times.Fast forward to recently and all of a sudden he just deleted me off his Facebook and I hadn't even done anything. He kept my best friend on though..go figure. So I deleted all of his friends off mine.So I saw him out last Friday and he bought me a drink and was being really nice and I went up when he was talking to two girls and apparently i just went up to him and started making out with him and then just walked off from him and he looked at my friend and shrugged his shoulders! I texted him the next day and we were talking and stuff. So I thought I would re-add him to FB and he ignored it!!!! Still has my friend though. And every time I see him out he is all nice and stares at me and stuff. The thing is I really like him and we do have a lot in common but I just don't get it. I don't know whether I should ask him If i have done anything or just leave him alone. Argh!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThat's true I suppose. Maybe he just want's to sleep with me and I turned out to be more hard work that he thought...and maybe he is just after the attention.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 February 2010):
Either attention for his ego, or he's just keeping you around in the hope you will have sex with him. But you know that since he is often with other women so you know he's not interested in commitment.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHmmm yeah I suppose, but what would he be using me for? His behaviour is just weird....
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (22 February 2010):
You're walking into a nightmare. He's not interested in any kind of commitment. Just seems like he's using you. Leave him well alone and find a better guy.
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